Dear TMOT: She Curses Me

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If a Man allows a women to curse him in front of her family, friends, in public and in front of His own kids, he has no balls. He should leave or He may as well change his name to “Sweet Corn” and take up with a man.

23 thoughts on “Dear TMOT: She Curses Me”

  1. WOW no one should ever hit or talk about a person they care about. thats not love.

  6. I generally listen to your videos from start to finish. This one, I stopped about the 3 minute mark. I know this much. I’ve seen this movie before and never has a good ending. I hope this guy has sense to figure it out before things get worse than they are.

  8. “kinda harsh tmot” – Baxter

    True, but that’s what the guy needs, a swift in the butt, it’s called ‘tough love’ and it’s the best cure for the disease of the man with raisins where his nuts oughta be.

  9. @ifama
    If she’s strong logically her man is weak. Two strong (or weak) people can’t co-exist. So if a woman calls herself strong she shouldn’t be surprised if her man is weak.

  10. That is a myth in itself. That image has been distorted for the most part. If she is so strong, what is her MAN? The FACT is that because of our experience we are a STRONG people to have LIVED through it, as other groups are no more. But that myth has caused much animosity between Black men and Black women.

  11. I have cussed a man out ONE time in my life. I was 16 years old and he wasn’t MY man, but he was A man. I was immediately whisked away by OTHER men, allowed to “sleep it off” and then given a lesson about “cussin out men” that I have never forgotten. Space does not allow me to elaborate. But suffice it to say, that I have not cussed a man out since. Now I do cuss but not directly AT ANYONE. If I feel I have to go there with someone, we don’t need to be around each other. I bounce!!

  14. I aint gonna lie i just turned 25 and I still live with my mom. And I’m trying to move the hell out…lol

  15. He will be lucky if he can place the kid up for adoption and start his life over again. He needs to stay totally single until he can get his life in order.

    In this economy, the only job this dude has to look forward to is either work for a prison or be in prison. If he’s in good physical shape, he can be a cop and make a living arresting his brothers. If he doesn’t want to work for The Man, he can join the Army and work for the global bankster mafia who own the U.S.

  16. AND stop having kids by women you are not wiling to marry–That’s a big problem in our community

  17. Sorry, sounds like he’s be coddled long enough… The guy needs to start being a man and grow a set…

    If he isn’t a man or is respected as a man, how will his kids (ESPECIALLY a son) respect him. And If you don’t respect yourself, don’t expect others to respect you..

  18. The main problem that I see is he has no self-respect and self-esteem. If he did, he wouldn’t be living with his mom @ 25+, he definitely wouldn’t have knocked up the neighborhood “jumpoff” and he would have bounced on this other chic a long time ago and that’s just to start with… I hope this dude gets a full-time gig, goes to school to learn a skill or trade and gets himself together soon…

  19. kinda harsh tmot…no need to tell the guy to hook up with a man. I might be pathetic but I have some direction…some, still perhaps some guidance to this guy it might help

  20. My mom is 57 years old and she have no problem cursing a man out. It doesn’t matter who is around. She tells her man who got 3 jobs when he can take a shower because she doesn’t want her bathroom to be dirty. I never did that to any man I was with. I knew what she was during was wrong. That guy made a huge mistake getting her pregnant. I agree he better step it up to her because she sound like my mom. Love your videos I’m so happy I found your channel

  21. I used to watch Judge Joe Brown a lot a few years back, and he was always admonishing weak males to get a J O B and be an M A N. The world would be a much different place if all men would heed the advise. Government would not be able to ride folks and nor would any one else. My job brings me into contact with so many Child-Men, it saddens me. Our future as a Nation is at stake.

  22. The sweet corn part was funny. But seriously no woman will respect a man that doesn’t has his own. If you depend on a woman for anything they will let you know it when you try to show your a man. My attitude is the only one I depend on is God and myself. If you have no respect you have no relationship so this brother needs to focus on him and his children. Leave the women alone, these people these days don’t think before they act. They need to realize their head is more than a hat rack