Dear TMOT….I have a tough question for you. How can we as Black people change the gender and role confusion in the Black race.
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Dear TMOT….I have a tough question for you. How can we as Black people change the gender and role confusion in the Black race.
good stuff man that was a power punch in the face we as a people need to change..
very touching video.
The video is crystal clear.
If you are a true Christain you will not have out of wedlock babies over and over again. If you are a true Christian you will not let your sons walk around with thier drawers hanging(so other will think of them as thugs) or your let daughter your daughter dress like hoochies (so others think of them as tramps).
A religion structure is healthy.
It’s not bible thumping…a strong religion belief tends to be a safer lifestyle.
If you are a true Christian you will not be in the clubs or bars to catch Aids or get raped or shot. If you are a true Christian you will not smoke to ruin your lungs and catch Cancer. You will not drink alcohol to destroy your liver if you are a Christian and you will not use crack and destroy your life by forcing people to steal to support the drug habit. Being a true Christian is a safer way to live.
I’m for marry whoever u love; it’s not an age or race thing. It is a gender thing however. Unfortunately, these days we have to be clear re: fags n dikes; it’s sin – there is no gray line! It’s sin!
Furthetmore, lets face facts, looks matter from the very start. Ladies don’t want tired old decrepit males. Finally, the $ is a means to an end. These days we r seeing young studs with older women.
It is what it is including all the other things spoken of; it is a correct observation of the slothfulness n subjectivity with no concern for age. Unfortunately this life for males in society is ok.
I know plenty of women and men who are secure in their grey hair and wear it proudly. You sound as though you may be a youngster caught up in the superficiality of appearance (barring that which is unhealthy of course). It that so?
The convincing is done in the mirror. u r cool with it, so as i said- that’s the way it is with males.
Who are you trying to convince? Me?
There is nothing wrong with my grey hair!
End of Story.
Thank u i will.
That’s the point exactly although the comment wasn’t directed to u. Your choice & u have to look at it.
Like it or not it’s true…all of the statements.
I am a male and I don’t take that view. But, then you already know I am a male.
You sound a little crossed. I am proud of my grey hair. Live long enough to enjoy some of your own and then we can have a conversation. Have a good day.
Bottom line males tend to take the easy road.Very, very lazy but still wants to be in control if it’ll fly.Abandons kids & simply prefers, pleasure, entertainment,anything selfish over helping others.
In a male’s view, a lady is to be humble & meek while the males r not to display self control. Frankly, that attitude can be seen physically on males. Fat slobs, unshaven, bad clothes, gray hair, ew.
The problem with males is they always want to control both males n ladies. But the ladies is an easier target since males feel they can always tell a woman what to do.This begins with labels.U r wrong
The male enjoys labeling women as nagging, aggressive,etc.The fact is let’s look in the mirror and determine a male’s numerous problems w/o for once blaming a woman.The tired ego of males r ball-less
I answered it. We teach them if they are willing to listen that there is a better way.
If they are not willing to listen, move on.
The lost has to want to be found. Do not loose sleep over it.
Thanks for caring enough to share your story.
This is a very deep and important message, but I was hoping for a better answer on the topic of role reversale of aggressive black woman and immature black men
That’s deep brotha, damn.
A very powerful video.
My brother who has AIDS had to bury his partner of 20 years a year ago. His partner cheated and eventually got infected. Yes…people are still dying of AIDS and they truly do SUFFER. That germ infects every organ in your body and AIDS people can not recieved oragan donations. They will not put or waste a healthy organ into a diseased body.
Many people with AIDS look very healthy…beware of who you get in bed with.
No, that was Valerie Solonas and she shot Andy warhol.
Man a lot of people need to hear this, because a lot of them, both men and women are sitting there doing what they doing and thinking the chickens won’t come hope to roost on them. I hope they listen and learn from your message and R.I.P to your two brothers. Thanks for speaking on this topic.